In 2013, the “unplugged” wedding trend rose to popularity and it is easy to see why. Often times, key moments that a couple want captured on film or camera can be ruined, because a guest slides in front of the photographer. The guest does not mean to ruin the moment, but he or she is probably just trying to capture the moment on his or her own smartphone. Not only can guests with smartphones get in the way of capturing key moments, but also it often makes the newlyweds feel as if their special moments are that much less important.
This is what the “unplugged” wedding trend is all about. If you are interested in banning smartphone photography and social media sharing during your ceremonies without causing too many problems with your guests then continue reading.
Go back to basics have an unplugged wedding Share on XConsult With Your Photographer
A key thing to keep in mind is that guests snap their own photos during your wedding to capture long last memories for them to look back on and not to be rude. With that being said, announcing that you are hosting a device free wedding will go over much smoother, if you speak with your photographer first. Your photographer will be able to provide an online link where your guests can share photos on social media sites the day after your event is over.
The photographer can also give your guests access to an online photo album where they can purchase their favorite pictures from the event. Be sure to pass all this information along to the guests, who still have concerns about not being able to bring their phones to the wedding.
“Unplugged wedding asking your guests that you are going to have a device free wedding especially during ceremony and reception.” Share on XHow Unplugged Do You Want To Go
You will need to figure out just how far “unplugged” you want to take your wedding. Just ask yourself would you rather see the faces of your guests as you announce your vows or would you rather see their phones? Maybe you don’t care about this because you know they are capturing key moments from your wedding. Of course, you always have the option of banning phones altogether, which is common among many celebrity weddings.
Perhaps you don’t care about guests snapping photos, but you don’t want the photos posted on social media websites. These are all things that you need to consider before you announce that you are going to have a device free wedding. If you decide to add some social media functionality to your wedding, be sure to follow the appropriate social media wedding etiquette.
Announcing Unplugged To Your Guests
After you decide on the level of “unplugged” that you want at your wedding, you are going to have to find a way to announce it to your guests. There are several different ways that you can go about this. For instance, you can put it in your wedding program, post it on your wedding website, put up a sign on the day of your ceremony, or you could even announce this to your guests during your bridal shower. Keep in mind that even if you announce this before your wedding it is always a good idea to have the officiant remind your guests of the no device policy before the ceremonies begin.
Enforce The Rules
It is highly likely that one person at your wedding will have an social media addiction and won’t follow the rules. Appoint a member of your bridal party to keep an eye out for problems and make sure everyone follows the rules. (of course ask politely).
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Here are some plugged wedding photos on the net – credits of the images to their respective owners
16 Comments
juanita
October 19, 2015Good luck with no flashes especially grandma’s don’t know how to turn their flashes off.
Allen
October 20, 2015Some folks don’t know how to change the settings on their phones or point n shoot.
Tianna
October 21, 2015I have these signs on my wedding we manage but not 100%.
Barbera
October 22, 2015As a bride I appreciate my family and friends extra photos from reception. but for ceremony I agree, leave it to the pros.
stanton
October 23, 2015I wouldn’t go entirely unplugged wedding, I personally encourage my guest to keep taking picutres on the reception.
eloisa
October 24, 2015As a bride to be, my budget was to have only 1 pro photographer. Thinking maybe some guests will replace the second photographer. but I like the idea only on the reception.
Dale
October 25, 2015Some people just think the rules don’t apply to them, whether because of their relation to the couple or just their general sense of entitlement say uncle bob?, plan it right.
alverta
October 26, 2015I think it’s better to add a note “no picture taking” to your ceremony programs and go crazy on the reception. Yes I want to see my crazy friends dancing. 😉
Dottie
October 27, 2015I agree ban on taking pictures on the ceremony, just relax and enjoy the moment.
Linda
October 28, 2015I’ve thought about this, but I would ask the nicely so that they wont offended.
Isela
October 29, 2015Well my experience is that I told my mom, she thinks it’s a great idea but grandma think she’s so special to not follow the rules so I have my mom talk to her that she can go crazy taking pictures on our reception.
fernanda
October 30, 2015You should be enjoying the moment with the bride and groom not watching it from behind on a small screen whereas you have 360 view live! The reception is a totally different story in my opinion.
francine
October 31, 2015I agree on someone’s post – put a note in the programs and the officiant even announced it.
lajuana
November 01, 2015Enjoy the bride and groom moments! Don’t experience life through a screen.
dianna
November 02, 2015I think it’s a great idea. The guests are enjoying focusing on the moment not on their cell phones.
pasty
November 03, 2015I would ask that guests refrain from taking photos during the ceremony and invite them to go nuts with cameras and social media during the reception.